You: knows what's expected. ignores it gracefully.
Il Filo: knows what's expected. publishes the rest.
Current & Past Issues
Issue 13 · Current PreviewBehind Our DoorOn marriage as we see it, marriage as it is lived, and the assumptions we make in between. Read the opening, then subscribe to continue.
Issue 12
Locked Out
Seven stories on electronic abuse — how it happens, when it's a crime, and the resources that can and can't help.
Issue 11
Being Pinked
Distinguishing between products and services that provide genuinely unique value to women and those that just happen to come in a pink box. Seven parts on financial advice, the pink tax, and knowing when you are being sold a stereotype instead of a service.
Issue 10
The Conversation Is Ours
On artificial intelligence, accumulated judgment and knowing what to question. Seven parts on what AI inherited, how to interrogate it well, and why intelligence and judgment were never the same thing.
Issue 09
What She Inherited
What we take from our mothers, and how we tell it apart from the women we decided to become. Seven stories on evidence, sorting, and the parts of a person that stay open.
Issue 08
The Feeling of a Room
The home as something you feel before you see. Seven stories on rest, conversation, thought, welcome, and the rooms we leave.
Issue 07
This Is For Me
On the difference between the aloneness that returns you to yourself and the aloneness that takes you further from it.
Issue 06
The Ones Who Hold Our Secrets
They know the parts that are shared and the parts that are hidden. On the complex and cherished bonds women share.
Issue 05
Beginner Again
The pleasure of starting something new in this decade. What improves with age, three women who began late, and a menu of beginnings you have never considered.
Issue 04
The Threshold
The pile-up no one names. Seven stories on what actually happens when everything changes at once.
Issue 03
Who Will Take Care of Me?
On soloaging, planning, and building a future without the assumed support systems.
Issue 02
The Menopause Market
Seven stories on the most under-served demographic in the history of consumer health.
Issue 01
The First Thread
Where it begins.